Yeah, I know it's been a little while since I've posted here. How long, exactly? Well, baby #2 is due tomorrow. So, yeah. A long time.
It's a girl. I'm terrified and also beyond excited to meet her. This was a rough pregnancy--puking daily up unti five months, extreme exhaustion, heartburn, two months' worth of colds and sinus infections--and I'm ready to have my functional immune system back, to say nothing of being able to bend over. But I'm also scared to death at the prospect of caring for a baby and a toddler at the same time. And I'm really scared she will have the same colic and sleep issues that S. had when he was a baby. Plus there is just that whole crazy newborn sleeping/feeding cycle, where you pretty much can't sleep for more than an hour at a time in the beginning if you are planning to nurse, which I am. Oh, and did I mention that I hired a doula and midwife and I'm gonna try to do it without drugs? It's all a little overwhelming.
But. This is what I wanted. We got lucky and conceived her without any trouble. I didn't get any invasive diagnostic testing but I got a newly available blood test which indicated things look good. There are no guarantees, but I have every indication that we're going to have a healthy, beautiful baby girl, in a matter of days, most likely. And of course I am excited to see how S. reacts to her.
Speaking of S. He is just a goddamned delight. He is really amazingly smart, even to my admittedly non-objective and untrained eye. Every day he says new and hilarious shit that cracks me up. We are still nursing and cosleeping (siiiiiiiiigh), though, so his world is gonna be rocked when he realizes that mommy needs to sleep next to the new baby, in another room, and that he's going to have to wait in line to nurse.
So I am really trying to just soak up as much Mommy/S. lovin' as I can in these last few days where I don't have to divide my attention. Last night, I made him stop nursing before he fell asleep; we've been doing this a few weeks now and it's finally working pretty well. He can sleep without a boob in his mouth. But he still needs me there. So after I broke the latch, he turned over and said, "Mommy, let's snuggle." Then he pulled both my arms around him and we spooned until he fell asleep. Then, in the morning, he asked for Eskimo kisses and we rubbed noses as he laughed and smiled. It was just so delicious and sweet and lovely. S., if you ever read this, please know that you have given me the greatest, purest joy I have ever known. I can't even imagine how my heart can possibly feel any more full, but as we get ready to grow our family, I expect I'll find out soon enough.
It's a girl. I'm terrified and also beyond excited to meet her. This was a rough pregnancy--puking daily up unti five months, extreme exhaustion, heartburn, two months' worth of colds and sinus infections--and I'm ready to have my functional immune system back, to say nothing of being able to bend over. But I'm also scared to death at the prospect of caring for a baby and a toddler at the same time. And I'm really scared she will have the same colic and sleep issues that S. had when he was a baby. Plus there is just that whole crazy newborn sleeping/feeding cycle, where you pretty much can't sleep for more than an hour at a time in the beginning if you are planning to nurse, which I am. Oh, and did I mention that I hired a doula and midwife and I'm gonna try to do it without drugs? It's all a little overwhelming.
But. This is what I wanted. We got lucky and conceived her without any trouble. I didn't get any invasive diagnostic testing but I got a newly available blood test which indicated things look good. There are no guarantees, but I have every indication that we're going to have a healthy, beautiful baby girl, in a matter of days, most likely. And of course I am excited to see how S. reacts to her.
Speaking of S. He is just a goddamned delight. He is really amazingly smart, even to my admittedly non-objective and untrained eye. Every day he says new and hilarious shit that cracks me up. We are still nursing and cosleeping (siiiiiiiiigh), though, so his world is gonna be rocked when he realizes that mommy needs to sleep next to the new baby, in another room, and that he's going to have to wait in line to nurse.
So I am really trying to just soak up as much Mommy/S. lovin' as I can in these last few days where I don't have to divide my attention. Last night, I made him stop nursing before he fell asleep; we've been doing this a few weeks now and it's finally working pretty well. He can sleep without a boob in his mouth. But he still needs me there. So after I broke the latch, he turned over and said, "Mommy, let's snuggle." Then he pulled both my arms around him and we spooned until he fell asleep. Then, in the morning, he asked for Eskimo kisses and we rubbed noses as he laughed and smiled. It was just so delicious and sweet and lovely. S., if you ever read this, please know that you have given me the greatest, purest joy I have ever known. I can't even imagine how my heart can possibly feel any more full, but as we get ready to grow our family, I expect I'll find out soon enough.